When some think of someone that uses a sex toy and what they're actually using the toy for or what type of person they are, there is a lot of misconceptions. No sex toys aren't part of everybody's everyday conversations, but if they weren't taboo to talk about we would all see just how normal they really are. Let's dig into some of the myths that surround sex toys and people that use them.
Myth #1- Vibrators are only used by singles. Just because sex toys are considered taboo in a lot of the world, doesn't mean people in relationships don't need/want any company in the bedroom.
Reality- The reality is that more people are using vibrators, even people in relationships. According to Laura Berman, Ph.D. 1/3 of American women are now using vibrators and they are more likely to use them than women who are single. Well, you don't say.
Myth #2- Men don't use sex toys. Maybe none of the men you know say they don't use them, but we assure you LOTS of men are using or have used sex toys either solo or with a partner.
Reality- There are lots of sex toys geared towards men, but there are also toys that are advertised for women and can be used by men as well for more stimulation/relaxation. Indiana's Kinsey Institute shows that 45% of men have used a vibrator during sex. So, let's be honest a man using a vibrator isn't so "weird" as one would like to think. There is a lot more to male sex toys than anal/prostate stimulators.
Myth #3- Women who use sex toys to climax, something is wrong with them. We aren't doctors at Secret Vibez, but sometimes it may take a little more stimulation for a women to reach her climax.
Reality- Nothing is wrong for a woman to need/want sex toys during intercourse or even when masturbating. According to the American Medical Association, 25% of women REQUIRE pleasure outside of fingers, a mouth and even a penis and that is perfectly normal. Achieving a vaginal orgasm alone isn't something that comes easy for all women. In fact, 81.6% of women don't orgasm without clit stimulation and 18.4% of women report that intercourse alone is good enough to get the job done.
Myth #4- Sex toys can replace your partner. Yes, some people may say that they don't need the hassle of a person if they just want the sex, but there is a little more than just the sexual satisfaction.
Reality- Yes, sex toys can do some pretty amazing things that humans aren't meant to do and will never be able to do. But one thing a sex toy isn't meant to do is replace your partner future or present. There are things like a touch of a person, the warmth of a human and just basic adult interaction in or out of the bedroom that a toy just can't fulfill. Remember, your sex toy should never become your partner or potential partner's competition, they should only be considered a companion.
Although there are a lot of misconceptions about sex toys and people who use them, rest assure that nothing is weird about you if you have 1 sex toy, a room full, or thinking about getting your first. If you use them by yourself or with a partner, it's your business, enjoy them, because they are pretty amazing!!